My boyfriend disrespects me and he thinks his behavior is normal!?

OMG! What are you doing going out with a 45 year old when you are 17 and now 18. He can go to jail for statutory ! Drop this looser right now. Leave and find someone your own age. You don't need abuse. Have respect for yourself. This wrong on so many levels you will not understand until you are much older what this man has done to you already. Get away from him. If you live with this man, get the police or sheriff to help you get your stuff out. Your life is in danger if you stay with this person. There is something seriously wrong with a man that preys on children.