Hi guys&girls plz help iam very dipress abt this?

a lady she was our neibour she know my love &every, she and her frd plan to spoit my life they arrange a man to love me she give my mobile no to that man, i dont know that plan, that man was continusely call me and msg me regularly i day he propose me later i accept him and one time with him after two months later only i know every thing, iam very shocking i dont know what i do, attemt to suside, bcz they blem me to tell others&my parents, now iam married they go straight to tell my husband&my sister in law, everything they creat a very big problem to me, then i explain to my husband he should understand me then he said dont worry abt it iam with u, realy i thank god, now my prb is still they blem me and tell our street members and discuss abt me seprate seprate groups.. What i do iam crying everyday... They look and smile me, also that ladys not gud charecter, how i konw their sectrets i want to teach a lesson to them.. Plz help me