Feeling left behind in my relationship, what do you think?

I think you should talk to him about this. If you think that he is being unfair to you then I would speak up. Im guessing you know him quite well sicne you have been togeher for four years now. If you ask him if things in your relationship are going to go farther then ask him to take you on a romantic trip.. My fiance cant afford much and I always take him with me where ever i go because i feel bad just leaving him at home. If you two just come to an understanding about trips and money and you tell him your not in it for his money he should understand. I hope this helps hun just keep trying and if he keeps it up i think you should see about how you really feel about him